Best Parenting Books

All 133 parenting books in our library, ranked: from building a secure bond in early childhood to helping teenagers become more independent. Each one has a 15–20 minute summary you can read or listen to.

Where to Start

Our picks by topic

Starting with connection

The strongest general guides begin with the relationship. Good Inside by Becky Kennedy treats difficult behavior as a sign that a child needs support and skills. The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read by Philippa Perry connects parenting patterns to your own childhood, while The Whole-Brain Child explains how children’s developing brains shape their reactions.

Building secure attachment

Attachment is about giving children a dependable base while helping them handle strong feelings. Raising Securely Attached Kids by Eli Harwood explains how parents can respond to emotional needs without losing their boundaries. The Power of Showing Up by Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson focuses on consistent presence, and Parenting from the Inside Out examines how parents’ past experiences affect family life.

Guiding growing teenagers

Teen years require a different balance of support and freedom. The Emotional Lives of Teenagers by Lisa Damour explains how adults can take adolescent emotions seriously without treating every feeling as a crisis. Untangled maps the main transitions of adolescence, while The Self-Driven Child by William Stixrud and Ned Johnson makes the case for giving children more control over their lives.

Handling conflict and setbacks

These books focus on what to do when behavior becomes difficult. The Explosive Child by Ross W. Greene presents collaborative problem solving for recurring conflicts. 13 Things Mentally Strong Parents Don’t Do by Amy Morin identifies habits that can weaken children’s resilience, and The Gift of Failure by Jessica Lahey argues that children need room to make mistakes and learn from them.

Parenting Book Charts

Ratings and rating counts from Goodreads

All Parenting Books, Ranked

Ranked 1–100 of 133 books by Goodreads ratings

#1Habits of the Household cover
Habits of the Household
Justin Whitmel Earley
★ 4.5 · 28.9K on Goodreads
#2Good Inside cover
Good Inside
Becky Kennedy
★ 4.5 · 49.5K on Goodreads
#3Untangled cover
Untangled
Lisa Damour
★ 4.5 · 20.3K on Goodreads
#4Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents cover
Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents
Lindsay C. Gibson
★ 4.3 · 105.1K on Goodreads
#5Uniquely Human cover
Uniquely Human
Barry M. Prizant
★ 4.5 · 7.8K on Goodreads
#6The Emotional Lives of Teenagers cover
The Emotional Lives of Teenagers
Lisa Damour
★ 4.5 · 7.1K on Goodreads
#7Daring Greatly cover
Daring Greatly
Brené Brown
★ 4.3 · 250.5K on Goodreads
#8The Anxious Generation cover
The Anxious Generation
Jonathan Haidt
★ 4.3 · 225.2K on Goodreads
#9The Connected Child cover
The Connected Child
Karyn B. Purvis, David R. Cross and Wendy Lyons Sunshine
★ 4.4 · 6.3K on Goodreads
#10Raising Securely Attached Kids cover
Raising Securely Attached Kids
Eli Harwood
★ 4.5 · 4K on Goodreads
#11Expecting Better cover
Expecting Better
Emily Oster
★ 4.3 · 60.6K on Goodreads
#12The Whole-Brain Child cover
The Whole-Brain Child
Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson
★ 4.3 · 64.9K on Goodreads
#13The Call of the Wild and Free cover
The Call of the Wild and Free
Ainsley Arment
★ 4.3 · 11.4K on Goodreads
#14I Am Not Your Baby Mother cover
I Am Not Your Baby Mother
Candice Brathwaite
★ 4.4 · 5.6K on Goodreads
#15Scattered Minds cover
Scattered Minds
Gabor Maté
★ 4.3 · 24.2K on Goodreads
#16The Self-Driven Child cover
The Self-Driven Child
William Stixrud and Ned Johnson
★ 4.3 · 8.2K on Goodreads
#17The Montessori Toddler cover
The Montessori Toddler
Simone Davies
★ 4.3 · 16.3K on Goodreads
#18No-Drama Discipline cover
No-Drama Discipline
Daniel J. Siegel & Tina Payne Bryson
★ 4.3 · 27K on Goodreads
#19The Daily Dad cover
The Daily Dad
Ryan Holiday
★ 4.5 · 2.5K on Goodreads
#20It Starts with the Egg cover
It Starts with the Egg
Rebecca Fett
★ 4.3 · 7.4K on Goodreads
#21No Bad Kids cover
No Bad Kids
Janet Lansbury
★ 4.3 · 12.4K on Goodreads
#22Simplicity Parenting cover
Simplicity Parenting
Kim John Payne and Lisa M. Ross
★ 4.2 · 16.6K on Goodreads
#23The Conscious Parent cover
The Conscious Parent
Shefali Tsabary
★ 4.3 · 7.1K on Goodreads
#24Smart Money Smart Kids cover
Smart Money Smart Kids
Dave Ramsey & Rachel Cruze
★ 4.3 · 7.5K on Goodreads
#25The Power of Showing Up cover
The Power of Showing Up
Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson
★ 4.3 · 6K on Goodreads
#26Under Pressure cover
Under Pressure
Lisa Damour
★ 4.3 · 4.3K on Goodreads
#27Drama Free cover
Drama Free
Nedra Glover Tawwab
★ 4.3 · 6.9K on Goodreads
#28Potty Training in 3 Days cover
Potty Training in 3 Days
Brandi Brucks
★ 4.2 · 7.1K on Goodreads
#29Brown Girl Dreaming cover
Brown Girl Dreaming
Jacqueline Woodson
★ 4.2 · 95.3K on Goodreads
#30The Womanly Art of Breastfeeding cover
The Womanly Art of Breastfeeding
La Leche League International
★ 4.2 · 10.4K on Goodreads
#31Excellent Advice for Living cover
Excellent Advice for Living
Kevin Kelly
★ 4.2 · 5.2K on Goodreads
#32The Explosive Child cover
The Explosive Child
Ross W. Greene
★ 4.2 · 14.1K on Goodreads
#33Why Love Matters cover
Why Love Matters
Sue Gerhardt
★ 4.3 · 2.1K on Goodreads
#34Permission to Feel cover
Permission to Feel
Marc Brackett
★ 4.2 · 12.9K on Goodreads
#35The Baby Book cover
The Baby Book
William Sears
★ 4.2 · 7.5K on Goodreads
#36The Yes Brain cover
The Yes Brain
Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson
★ 4.2 · 6.4K on Goodreads
#37Hold on to Your Kids cover
Hold on to Your Kids
Gordon Neufeld & Gabor Maté
★ 4.1 · 13.5K on Goodreads
#38Cribsheet cover
Cribsheet
Emily Oster
★ 4.1 · 49.1K on Goodreads
#39The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Families cover
The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Families
Stephen R. Covey
★ 4.1 · 11.7K on Goodreads
#40Parenting from the Inside Out cover
Parenting from the Inside Out
Daniel J. Siegel, Mary Hartzell
★ 4.2 · 5.9K on Goodreads
#41The Gift of Failure cover
The Gift of Failure
Jessica Lahey
★ 4.1 · 8K on Goodreads
#42Raising Mentally Strong Kids cover
Raising Mentally Strong Kids
Amen MD Daniel G. & Charles Fay
★ 4.1 · 5.3K on Goodreads
#43Fourteen Talks by Age Fourteen cover
Fourteen Talks by Age Fourteen
Michelle Icard
★ 4.2 · 3.9K on Goodreads
#44This Is So Awkward cover
This Is So Awkward
Cara Natterson & Vanessa Kroll Bennett
★ 4.3 · 1.5K on Goodreads
#45The Danish Way of Parenting cover
The Danish Way of Parenting
Jessica Joelle Alexander & Iben Dissing Sandahl
★ 4.1 · 19.1K on Goodreads
#46Thirty Million Words cover
Thirty Million Words
Dana Suskind
★ 4.1 · 4K on Goodreads
#47Raising a Secure Child cover
Raising a Secure Child
Kent Hoffman, Glen Cooper and Bert Powell with Christine M. Benton
★ 4.2 · 2.1K on Goodreads
#48Healthy Kids, Happy Kids cover
Healthy Kids, Happy Kids
Elisa Song
★ 4.5 · 686 on Goodreads
#49How to Raise an Adult cover
How to Raise an Adult
Julie Lythcott-Haims
★ 4.1 · 13.5K on Goodreads
#50Becoming Attached cover
Becoming Attached
Robert Karen
★ 4.2 · 1.4K on Goodreads
#5113 Things Mentally Strong Parents Don’t Do cover
13 Things Mentally Strong Parents Don’t Do
Amy Morin
★ 4.2 · 2.3K on Goodreads
#52Moms on Call cover
Moms on Call
Laura Hunter & Jennifer Walker
★ 4.4 · 827 on Goodreads
#53The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective Teens cover
The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective Teens
Sean Covey
★ 4.0 · 38.3K on Goodreads
#54Nanaville cover
Nanaville
Anna Quindlen
★ 4.1 · 4.5K on Goodreads
#55Doing Life with Your Adult Children cover
Doing Life with Your Adult Children
Jim Burns
★ 4.1 · 7K on Goodreads
#56Creative Schools cover
Creative Schools
Ken Robinson and Lou Aronica
★ 4.1 · 4.2K on Goodreads
#57How Not to Hate Your Husband After Kids cover
How Not to Hate Your Husband After Kids
Jancee Dunn
★ 4.0 · 16.4K on Goodreads
#58The Parenting Map cover
The Parenting Map
Dr. Shefali
★ 4.2 · 1.1K on Goodreads
#59The Drama of the Gifted Child cover
The Drama of the Gifted Child
Alice Miller
★ 4.0 · 32.1K on Goodreads
#60The Power Pause cover
The Power Pause
Neha Ruch
★ 4.2 · 1.7K on Goodreads
#61Seculosity cover
Seculosity
David Zahl
★ 4.2 · 1.1K on Goodreads
#62Raising Girls Who Like Themselves cover
Raising Girls Who Like Themselves
Kasey Edwards, Christopher Scanlon
★ 4.1 · 3.3K on Goodreads
#63How to Stop Losing Your Sh*t with Your Kids cover
How to Stop Losing Your Sh*t with Your Kids
Carla Naumburg
★ 4.1 · 5.5K on Goodreads
#64Gifted and Distractible cover
Gifted and Distractible
Julie F. Skolnick
★ 4.3 · 592 on Goodreads
#65What Your ADHD Child Wishes You Knew cover
What Your ADHD Child Wishes You Knew
Sharon Saline
★ 4.2 · 1.2K on Goodreads
#66Tiny Humans, Big Emotions cover
Tiny Humans, Big Emotions
Alyssa Gloria Campbell & Lauren Stauble
★ 4.0 · 5.9K on Goodreads
#67Bringing Up Bébé cover
Bringing Up Bébé
Pamela Druckerman
★ 4.0 · 82.6K on Goodreads
#68The Addiction Inoculation cover
The Addiction Inoculation
Jessica Lahey
★ 4.2 · 716 on Goodreads
#69Raising Cain cover
Raising Cain
Dan Kindlon and Michael Thompson
★ 4.0 · 5.7K on Goodreads
#70Thrivers cover
Thrivers
Michele Borba
★ 4.0 · 1.6K on Goodreads
#71The Optimistic Child cover
The Optimistic Child
Martin E.P. Seligman
★ 4.0 · 1.4K on Goodreads
#72Fault Lines cover
Fault Lines
Karl Pillemer
★ 4.1 · 662 on Goodreads
#73Theories of Childhood cover
Theories of Childhood
Carol Garhart Mooney
★ 4.1 · 807 on Goodreads
#74The Fifth Trimester cover
The Fifth Trimester
Lauren Smith Brody
★ 4.0 · 2.4K on Goodreads
#75Raising Men cover
Raising Men
Eric Davis
★ 4.0 · 2.2K on Goodreads
#76Idiots cover
Idiots
Laura Clery
★ 4.0 · 4.7K on Goodreads
#77Common Sense Pregnancy cover
Common Sense Pregnancy
Jeanne Faulkner
★ 4.2 · 318 on Goodreads
#78Parenting Outside the Lines cover
Parenting Outside the Lines
Meghan Leahy
★ 4.2 · 218 on Goodreads
#79Bless This Mess cover
Bless This Mess
Molly Baskette and Ellen O’Donnell
★ 4.1 · 234 on Goodreads
#80Raising Critical Thinkers cover
Raising Critical Thinkers
Julie Bogart
★ 4.0 · 2.4K on Goodreads
#81Peaceful Discipline cover
Peaceful Discipline
Sarah R. Moore
★ 4.2 · 88 on Goodreads
#82Screamfree Parenting cover
Screamfree Parenting
Hal Edward Runkel
★ 4.0 · 5.4K on Goodreads
#83Wean in 15 cover
Wean in 15
Joe Wicks
★ 4.0 · 360 on Goodreads
#84365 Screen-Free Days cover
365 Screen-Free Days
Airplane Mode & Dae Lee
★ 4.5 · 2 on Goodreads
#85Moms Mean Business cover
Moms Mean Business
Erin Baebler and Lara Galloway
★ 4.0 · 35 on Goodreads
#86ADHD an A-Z cover
ADHD an A-Z
Leanne Maskell
★ 3.9 · 19 on Goodreads
#87Unlocking Parental Intelligence cover
Unlocking Parental Intelligence
Laurie Hollman
★ 3.9 · 53 on Goodreads
#88A New Way for Mothers cover
A New Way for Mothers
Louise Webster
★ 3.8 · 28 on Goodreads
#89Sexploitation cover
Sexploitation
Cindy Pierce
★ 3.9 · 107 on Goodreads
#90The Art of Talking with Children cover
The Art of Talking with Children
Rebecca Rolland
★ 3.9 · 306 on Goodreads
#91Adult Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers cover
Adult Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
Stephanie M. Kriesberg
★ 4.0 · 2.2K on Goodreads
#92The Happy Kid Handbook cover
The Happy Kid Handbook
Katie Hurley
★ 3.9 · 201 on Goodreads
#93Bad Therapy cover
Bad Therapy
Abigail Shrier
★ 4.0 · 16.1K on Goodreads
#94The Strength Switch cover
The Strength Switch
Lea Waters
★ 3.9 · 455 on Goodreads
#95#Upcycle Your Job cover
#Upcycle Your Job
Anna Meller
★ 3.1 · 36 on Goodreads
#96Growing Up in Public cover
Growing Up in Public
Devorah Heitner
★ 3.8 · 625 on Goodreads
#97Small Animals cover
Small Animals
Kim Brooks
★ 3.9 · 3.3K on Goodreads
#98How to Raise Successful People cover
How to Raise Successful People
Esther Wojcicki
★ 3.9 · 3.6K on Goodreads
#99Getting to 50/50 cover
Getting to 50/50
Sharon Meers and Joanna Strober
★ 3.7 · 353 on Goodreads
#100The Power of Neurodiversity cover
The Power of Neurodiversity
Thomas Armstrong
★ 3.9 · 1.1K on Goodreads

Parenting Books FAQ

Which parenting books help with discipline without punishment?

The Explosive Child by Ross W. Greene is a useful place to start for repeated conflict because it centers on solving problems with children. Good Inside by Becky Kennedy and The Whole-Brain Child by Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson also focus on responding to behavior with connection and skills.

What parenting books are useful for raising teenagers?

The Emotional Lives of Teenagers by Lisa Damour explains the emotional pressures of adolescence. Untangled covers the developmental shifts teenagers move through, and The Self-Driven Child by William Stixrud and Ned Johnson helps parents support independence without stepping back completely.

How are these parenting books ranked?

By Goodreads reader ratings, weighted by how many people rated each book, so a book with thousands of strong ratings ranks above one with a perfect score from a handful of readers. The list covers all 133 parenting summaries in the library.

Can I listen to these parenting book summaries?

Yes. Every summary has an audio version that takes about 15–20 minutes, so you can get the key ideas of a book on a commute and decide whether to read it in full. One audiobook is free every day in the AudiobookHub app.

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