Get the Guy

This narration explores a grounded approach to dating—one that steps away from fairytales and toward intentional choices. Instead of waiting for “the right time” or hoping the perfect person appears by chance, the listener is invited to build momentum: meeting more people, communicating with warmth, and creating opportunities for connection.

Across six chapters, it focuses on becoming a high-value partner for one’s own sake—through self-confidence, independence, integrity, and a comfortable sense of femininity—and then using simple, human skills like eye contact, conversation, and discernment to find someone whose values truly align.

• Anyone who feels tired of leaving dating to chance and wants a kinder, more intentional approach
• Listeners who want practical tools for meeting people, starting conversations, and spotting real compatibility early
• Those who want reassurance that they don’t need to “fix themselves”—they can simply refine their approach

Matthew Hussey is a dating coach and author known for teaching practical, confidence-building strategies to help people create meaningful romantic connections. His work emphasizes clarity, standards, and actionable communication skills.