You Better Believe I’m Gonna Talk About It

You Better Believe I’m Gonna Talk About It is Lisa Rinna’s candid, high-voltage memoir about what happens when a woman stops performing for approval and starts telling the truth as she sees it. Beginning with the shock of her mother Lois’s stroke and death, Rinna traces how grief leaked into every part of her public life—especially her final season on The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills—and why leaving the show became the only way forward.

From childhood bullying in Oregon to modeling, soaps, primetime TV, and reality stardom, she frames her career as a long fight to find her voice. Along the way, she opens up about marriage to Harry Hamlin, raising two daughters through health and mental-health crises, building and losing businesses, surviving internet hate, and navigating aging, hormones, and cosmetic procedures without shame. The through-line is her philosophy: take responsibility, tell the truth, and “own it.”

• Listeners who want a behind-the-scenes look at reality TV mechanics, cast dynamics, and the personal cost of public conflict.
• Women navigating midlife reinvention, grief, marriage longevity, parenting adult kids, and ageism in work and culture.
• Fans of celebrity memoirs that mix humor, blunt honesty, and practical takeaways on confidence, boundaries, and rebuilding after a fall.

Lisa Rinna is an actress, model, television personality, talk show and podcast host, entrepreneur, and New York Times bestselling author. She is known for roles on Days of Our Lives and Melrose Place, and for eight seasons on The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. She is married to actor Harry Hamlin and is the mother of Delilah Belle and Amelia Gray.