Vagina Problems

This audio summary follows Lara Parker’s personal experience with chronic pelvic and vaginal pain—painful periods, painful sex, confusing diagnoses, and the exhausting process of trying to be taken seriously. Along the way, it names what so many people live with in silence: endometriosis, vaginismus, and vulvodynia, and the heavy emotional weight of shame, isolation, and self-blame.

With warmth and honesty, the narration emphasizes a simple but powerful message: these problems are common, they are real, and they are not anyone’s fault. By learning the language, reframing narrow definitions of sex, and using tools like pain tracking and second opinions, listeners can feel more supported, more informed, and less alone.

• People who experience painful periods, pelvic pain, painful sex, or unexplained vaginal discomfort and want validating, understandable language for what they’re going through
• Partners, friends, and family members who want to better understand chronic pain and how to offer supportive, non-judgmental care
• Anyone navigating medical dismissal, confusing diagnoses, or the emotional toll of feeling “broken,” and who needs a steadier, kinder perspective

Lara Parker is a writer who publicly shared her experience with endometriosis and painful sex, helping spark open conversations about vaginal pain, stigma, and the need for better medical understanding and care. Her work emphasizes honest storytelling, validation, and encouragement for people who have been taught to stay silent.