Stay Sexy & Don’t Get Murdered audiobook cover - Two women meet in Los Angeles, bond over true crime, and build a community around honest storytelling—learning along the way about boundaries, recovery, therapy, and the quiet courage of choosing a life that actually fits.

Stay Sexy & Don’t Get Murdered

Two women meet in Los Angeles, bond over true crime, and build a community around honest storytelling—learning along the way about boundaries, recovery, therapy, and the quiet courage of choosing a life that actually fits.

Karen Kilgariff and Georgia Hardstark

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Chapter Overview

Description

This warm, story-driven summary follows Karen Kilgariff and Georgia Hardstark—two women whose paths crossed in 2010s Los Angeles and whose shared fascination with true crime became the spark for an unlikely creative partnership. Alongside the crimes they discuss, their own lives come into focus: childhood fears, people-pleasing habits, addiction and recovery, and the search for identity in a city that sells perfection.

Across these chapters, the heart of the message isn’t about sensationalizing darkness. It’s about noticing red flags without blaming victims, trusting instincts, asking for help, and learning how to care for the self with compassion. The throughline is gentle but clear: it’s possible to survive hard things, grow into stronger boundaries, and build a life—and friendships—that feel steady and real.

Who Should Listen

  • Listeners who enjoy true-crime culture but also want thoughtful reflection on safety, boundaries, and empathy.
  • Anyone recovering from people-pleasing, perfectionism, or addictive coping, looking for encouraging reminders that change can happen in small steps.
  • Creative people and career-changers who need reassurance that a personal path can take time—and still be worth trusting.

About the Authors

Karen Kilgariff and Georgia Hardstark are the co-creators and co-hosts of the true-crime comedy podcast My Favorite Murder. Their work blends personal storytelling with discussions of crime, safety, and the realities of living through anxiety, trauma, and recovery—creating a community built on honesty, humor, and shared humanity.