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- Have you ever wondered why our brains treat being the 'new person' as a survival threat, and how you can flip that switch to feel instant comfort?
- What if you could walk into any new job or social circle with a proven strategy to bypass awkwardness and build immediate confidence?
- What’s the secret to mastering the art of the 'new' so you can stop dreading unfamiliar situations and start thriving in them?
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Key Takeaways from What to Do When You’re New
- Discover why your anxiety in new situations is actually a perfectly normal evolutionary response to the unknown, rather than a personal flaw.
- Learn how to abandon rigid social scripts and adopt a 'coach', 'gamer', or 'beginner' mindset to transform intimidating encounters into fun learning opportunities.
- Master the art of the proactive introduction by using a simple strategy to state your name, establish context, and clearly acknowledge why you should know each other.
- Find out how writing down personal details immediately after meeting someone can help you avoid awkwardness and build the foundation for a strong relationship.
- Understand the biological barriers that make remembering names difficult and learn practical strategies to overcome context-dependent memory lapses to make a lasting impression.
What to Do When You’re New — Full Chapter Overview
Chapter 1: Recommendation
Chapter 2: Biological and cultural evolution often prime us to feel alert and anxious in new situations.
Chapter 3: Getting comfortable in new situations demands a shift in mindset.
Chapter 4: As a newcomer, the first skill to master is to introduce yourself properly and successfully.
Chapter 5: Practice remembering names to show respect, to flatter others, and to make a strong impression.
Chapter 6: Become comfortable faster by overcoming your fear of asking questions.
Chapter 7: Don’t let fear get in your way today; stay positive and focus on giving energy.
Chapter 8: Discover how to rid yourself of the anxiety of performing in front of strangers.
What to Do When You’re New Summary & Overview
What to Do When You’re New (2015) is the result of Rollag’s 20 years of research on why people become anxious and stressed in new situations. It provides strategies for changing your outlook on new situations and offers techniques for handling such situations with comfort and confidence.
Who Should Listen to What to Do When You’re New?
- Those who get anxious in unfamiliar situations
- Employees new on the job
- Students transferring to a new school
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