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The Discomfort Zone

How to Get What You Want by Living Fearlessly

Farrah Storr

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The Discomfort Zone
Reframing Fear+
Handling Obstacles+
Processing Trauma+
Defeating Perfectionism+
Leveraging Feedback+
Power of Constraints+
Smart Failure+
Mutually Beneficial Hustle+

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Question 1 of 9
How can individuals enter a 'challenge state' when facing a stressful situation like a job interview?
  • A. By taking deep breaths and suppressing the physical signs of panic to appear calm.
  • B. By interpreting their increased heart rate and adrenaline as the body preparing for success.
  • C. By lowering their expectations so that potential failure doesn't feel as devastating.
  • D. By avoiding the stressful situation entirely until they feel completely ready and fearless.
Question 2 of 9
According to the book, what is an example of creating a 'mini obstacle' to avoid a challenge?
  • A. Blaming an audition panel for being intimidating or discriminatory.
  • B. Quitting a goal entirely after experiencing a minor setback.
  • C. Claiming you cannot give a presentation because you don't have PowerPoint.
  • D. Confronting an examiner and offering to do any task they show you.
Question 3 of 9
What psychological phenomenon did scientists Richard Tedeschi and Lawrence Calhoun identify regarding traumatic experiences?
  • A. The Spotlight Effect
  • B. Post-Traumatic Growth
  • C. The Challenge State
  • D. The Avoidance Strategy
Question 4 of 9
What does the 'spotlight effect' reveal about social pressure and perfectionism?
  • A. People judge our mistakes twice as harshly as we judge ourselves.
  • B. We perform much better when we feel the pressure of an audience watching us.
  • C. People are actually thinking about us only half as much as we assume they are.
  • D. Sharing our fears with others puts an unnecessary spotlight on our weaknesses.
Question 5 of 9
Why does the author compare receiving professional feedback to sex?
  • A. It is an instinctual drive that everyone naturally seeks out and enjoys without hesitation.
  • B. It can be transformative if experienced with the right person, at the right time, and built on trust.
  • C. It is a physical response that releases adrenaline and automatically triggers a challenge state.
  • D. It should only be done spontaneously without any prior preparation or structured thought.
Question 6 of 9
How do uncomfortable constraints, such as tight deadlines or limited resources, affect our creative work?
  • A. They decrease our engagement levels and make us more likely to abandon a project.
  • B. They activate our perceptual scope, making us more aspirational and better at generating ideas.
  • C. They cause us to second-guess ourselves and significantly lower the quality of our output.
  • D. They force us into a state of panic that prevents big-picture thinking and innovation.
Question 7 of 9
What is a key characteristic of 'smart failure' as described in the book?
  • A. It occurs primarily because of laziness, carelessness, or a lack of necessary skills.
  • B. It happens when we bravely venture into uncharted territory to discover something new.
  • C. It is easily avoidable if we meticulously plan every step of a project in advance.
  • D. It requires us to immediately assign blame to the team members who made mistakes.
Question 8 of 9
How did Sara Blakely successfully 'hustle' to get Spanx off the ground, contrasting with the traditional approach Steve Jobs used?
  • A. She used the principle of reciprocity by identifying what she could give in return, making her request feel like a mutual favor.
  • B. She cold-called major department stores relentlessly until they finally agreed to stock her product out of exhaustion.
  • C. She launched a limited-edition version of Spanx to test the market demand before committing to mass production.
  • D. She created mini-obstacles for her competitors to slow down their production lines and gain a market advantage.
Question 9 of 9
What is the first step in the BMD (Brief Moments of Discomfort) Method?
  • A. Identify what you can do to feel more physically comfortable in the moment.
  • B. Reframe your discomfort as an invigorating adrenaline rush rather than a struggle.
  • C. Acknowledge your fear, because ignoring it will only make it more overwhelming.
  • D. Visualize yourself successfully completing the challenging task ahead of time.

The Discomfort Zone — Full Chapter Overview

The Discomfort Zone Summary & Overview

The Discomfort Zone (2018) shows us how we can become more comfortable with the fears that hold us back. But it also goes one step further, explaining how we can harness these fears to drive success. Using real life examples, Farrah Storr examines the true nature of uncomfortable feelings and provides strategies to manage them so we can reach our full potential. 

Who Should Listen to The Discomfort Zone?

  • Victims of performance anxiety
  • Seekers of true fulfillment
  • Ambitious professionals wanting to create business opportunities

About the Author: Farrah Storr

Farrah Storr is a journalist and editor. In 2018, as editor-in-chief of Cosmopolitan, she was awarded a PPA Award and a BSME Award. In 2017, she was included on a list of the UK’s 1,000 most influential people. The Discomfort Zone is her first book.  

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