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The Silent Language of Leaders

How Body Language Can Help – or Hurt – How You Lead

Carol Kinsey Goman

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The Silent Language of Leaders
Biology & Basics+
Projecting Leadership+
Negotiation & Reading Others+
Managing Change & Collaboration+
Communication Mediums+
Gender Differences+
Cultural Nuances & Universals+
The Power of Touch+

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Question 1 of 8
According to the text, why is body language evaluated almost instantly (within seven seconds)?
  • A. It is fundamentally rooted in the brain's limbic system, which acts as a rapid emotional alarm system.
  • B. Our eyes process visual information much faster than our ears process auditory information.
  • C. Modern communication technologies have conditioned us to make rapid visual judgments.
  • D. The brain's temporoparietal junction prioritizes visual data over verbal arguments.
Question 2 of 8
During a negotiation or presentation, what does keeping your palms down on the table convey?
  • A. Empathy and a desire to collaborate
  • B. Power and certainty
  • C. Defensiveness and a desire to leave
  • D. Boredom and unease
Question 3 of 8
Why is it important to identify 'baselines' when reading a conversation partner's body language?
  • A. To figure out which cultural zone they belong to before negotiating.
  • B. To intentionally mimic their gestures and build emotional connections.
  • C. To avoid misreading their behavior by understanding their normal level of movement and eye contact.
  • D. To determine if they prefer lean or rich communication methods.
Question 4 of 8
According to the text, what is a key difference between 'lean' and 'rich' communication?
  • A. Lean communication uses informal language, while rich communication uses professional business terminology.
  • B. Lean communication is text-based and easily misunderstood, while rich communication uses images or voice to convey clearer emotions.
  • C. Lean communication relies entirely on body language, while rich communication relies entirely on spoken words.
  • D. Lean communication is best for multicultural teams, while rich communication is best for local teams.
Question 5 of 8
Which spatial zone is usually considered best for interacting with business colleagues?
  • A. The Intimate Zone (about 18 inches)
  • B. The Close Personal Zone (about two feet)
  • C. The Far Personal Zone (about four feet)
  • D. The Social Zone (beyond six feet)
Question 6 of 8
How do male and female brains differ when processing emotions and stress, according to the book?
  • A. Stress reduces men's ability to empathize, but it increases empathy in women.
  • B. Men process emotions longer in the mirror neurons, while women quickly shift to the temporoparietal junction.
  • C. Stress triggers a fight-or-flight response in women, while men become highly emotional.
  • D. Women rely on the temporoparietal junction to solve emotional problems, while men rely solely on the limbic system.
Question 7 of 8
While most fake facial expressions are asymmetrical, which emotion naturally produces an asymmetrical facial expression?
  • A. Disgust
  • B. Surprise
  • C. Contempt
  • D. Fear
Question 8 of 8
Why is appropriate physical touch considered an important tool for great leaders?
  • A. It establishes dominance and authority in a multicultural workplace.
  • B. It replaces the need for verbal communication during crisis management.
  • C. It triggers the temporoparietal junction to enhance analytical thinking.
  • D. It fosters trust by releasing oxytocin and reducing the stress hormone cortisol.

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The Silent Language of Leaders Summary & Overview

Strong leaders have to project the right body language and be able to read it well in their team members if they want to lead them to success. The Silent Language of Leaders (2011) offers tips for reading and controlling body language, even in cultures where social cues differ.

Who Should Listen to The Silent Language of Leaders?

  • Anyone in a leadership position
  • Anyone who works in a multicultural environment
  • Anyone interested in body language or psychology

About the Author: Carol Kinsey Goman

Carol Kinsey Goman is a leadership coach, management consultant, keynote speaker and the president of Kinsey Consulting Services. She has published eleven books.

 

© Carol Kinsey Goman: The Silent Language of Leaders copyright 2011, John Wiley & Sons Inc. Used by permission of John Wiley & Sons Inc. and shall not be made available to any unauthorized third parties.

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