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The Evolution of Desire

Strategies of Human Mating

David M. Buss

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The Evolution of Desire
Foundations of Mating Psychology+
What Women Want+
What Men Want+
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Question 1 of 6
What is the central premise of David Buss's findings regarding modern mating preferences?
  • A. Modern social endeavors have completely rewritten our evolutionary mating strategies.
  • B. Human mating strategies have essentially remained the same as our ancestors, driven by the need for resources and reproduction.
  • C. Cultural differences play a much larger role in mating preferences than basic evolutionary biology.
  • D. Financial stability is the only characteristic that both men and women prioritize equally today.
Question 2 of 6
According to the text, why did ancestral women evolve to seek a commitment from their mates?
  • A. Because societal laws prohibited raising children without a committed partnership.
  • B. Because women naturally prefer monogamy, whereas men naturally prefer polygyny.
  • C. Because committing to one mate increased their own social status among their peers.
  • D. Because reproduction requires a massive biological and time investment from women, necessitating a partner's support.
Question 3 of 6
How do the mating desires of modern, financially independent women compare to those of ancestral women?
  • A. They completely reject the need for a supportive partner since they can provide for themselves.
  • B. They prioritize a man's physical attractiveness over his ability to provide support.
  • C. They still prefer a partner who provides some form of support, whether it is money, time, or energy.
  • D. They seek younger men exclusively, as financial provision is no longer a factor.
Question 4 of 6
Why did many ancestral men ultimately choose to commit to one woman despite the biological advantages of having multiple mates?
  • A. Because most women required commitment before consenting to sex, and it increased the probability of offspring survival.
  • B. Because having multiple mates required too many resources, which were scarce in ancestral times.
  • C. Because monogamy was strictly enforced by the leaders of early human tribes.
  • D. Because men naturally lose their desire for multiple partners as they age and gain social status.
Question 5 of 6
From an evolutionary perspective, why have men historically valued physical beauty in a potential mate?
  • A. It was an indicator of a woman's social status and wealth within the tribe.
  • B. It indicated that the woman possessed high intelligence and nurturing skills.
  • C. It served as a biological signal of good health, youth, and fertility.
  • D. It was a cultural standard imposed by early societal structures.
Question 6 of 6
How does the text describe the trajectory of a man's desirability to potential mates as he ages?
  • A. It decreases rapidly because physical strength was the primary trait valued by ancestral women.
  • B. It remains completely static throughout his life, regardless of his achievements.
  • C. It fluctuates unpredictably depending on the specific geographic factors of his environment.
  • D. It often continues into old age because men tend to accumulate resources and social status over time.

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The Evolution of Desire Summary & Overview

The Evolution of Desire (1994) drew on the largest study of human mating at the time to analyze the evolutionary foundations that lie behind our everyday desires and mating preferences. It was updated with new material in 2016.

Who Should Listen to The Evolution of Desire?

  • Psychology nerds
  • Individuals looking to attract a mate
  • Anyone curious about how our deepest desires work

About the Author: David M. Buss

David M. Buss is an evolutionary psychologist who studies human sexuality and mating strategies. He has written over 200 scientific articles and several books, including The Dangerous Passion, Evolutionary Psychology, and When Men Behave Badly. He is currently a professor of psychology at the University of Texas, Austin.

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