The Danish Way of Parenting

For years, Denmark has been known for ranking among the happiest countries in the world, and many people wonder what creates that steady sense of well-being. This summary explores how Danish culture shows up in the everyday choices parents make—and how those choices can shape children who feel secure, capable, and connected.

Through the PARENT approach—Play, Authenticity, Reframing, Empathy, No ultimatums, and Togetherness—you’ll hear practical, supportive ways to respond to children’s emotions, reduce anxiety, and build resilience without relying on fear or harsh punishment. The tone isn’t about perfection; it’s about learning a steadier, kinder path forward, one relationship-building moment at a time.

• Parents and caregivers who want calmer, more connected family dynamics without relying on intimidation or constant rewards.
• Expectant parents who feel anxious and want a simple, principle-based approach to raising confident, resilient children.
• Anyone interested in how culture and everyday parenting choices can influence children’s long-term well-being and social development.

Jessica Joelle Alexander is a writer who, after becoming pregnant and feeling understandably anxious about parenting, drew inspiration from Danish family culture through her marriage to a Dane. She and her co-author gathered Danish parenting ideas into a clear set of principles meant to be accessible to families around the world.