Sink: A Memoir audiobook cover - A boy with an Easy-Bake Oven and a black notebook grows up under the glare of a hard house and a harder city. With video games, anime, and drawings of sea monsters as lifelines, he learns how tenderness and fury can live in the same body — and how survival sometimes looks like a quiet, stubborn form of love.

Sink: A Memoir

A boy with an Easy-Bake Oven and a black notebook grows up under the glare of a hard house and a harder city. With video games, anime, and drawings of sea monsters as lifelines, he learns how tenderness and fury can live in the same body — and how survival sometimes looks like a quiet, stubborn form of love.

Joseph Earl Thomas

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Sink: A Memoir is the raw, vivid story of Joey — a tall, timid kid on Paul Street in Philadelphia — trying to stitch together warmth inside a cold world. He sleeps near the kitchen, cooks on a pink toy oven, draws giant serpents eating boats, and writes names in a black notebook, daring to choose who would stop hurting the people he loves. His house has roaches and no real doors; his family has rules etched into fear, and his neighborhood makes softness feel like a liability. Still, Joey finds joy wherever he can: anime marathons, JRPG stories, stolen fangs on Halloween, and the tender chaos of raising snakes, a dog, and an alligator he names Rex.

The book follows Joey as he navigates hospital nights and school days that go wrong, older boys who test him, and adults whose pain spills over into him. He is raised by a grandfather who calls him names, a mother who flickers in and out of the apartment, and girls and women — Tia, Erica, and Dotty — whose presence complicates and saves him in turns. Through sudden humor and heartbreaking detail, Joseph Earl Thomas shows how a kid learns to manage a furnace of anger without letting it burn his soul. He makes an honest space for shame and desire, for music blasting late, for video games that feel like more than games, and for small kindnesses that land like life rafts.

Who Should Listen

  • Readers who want a brave, tender memoir about childhood and survival
  • People who grew up navigating addiction, poverty, or violent homes
  • Educators, social workers, and youth advocates seeking honest portraits
  • Fans of stories where games, music, and imagination become lifelines
  • Listeners who value tough love, humor, and truth told without ornament

About the Authors

Joseph Earl Thomas is a writer from Frankford, Philadelphia. His work appears in VQR, N+1, Gulf Coast, The Offing, and The Kenyon Review. He holds an MFA in prose from the University of Notre Dame and is a doctoral candidate in English at the University of Pennsylvania. An excerpt of Sink won the 2020 Chautauqua Janus Prize, and he has received fellowships from Fulbright, VONA, Tin House, and Bread Loaf. He’s writing a novel, God Bless You, Otis Spunkmeyer, and a story collection, Leviathan Beach.