
Sink: A Memoir is the raw, vivid story of Joey — a tall, timid kid on Paul Street in Philadelphia — trying to stitch together warmth inside a cold world. He sleeps near the kitchen, cooks on a pink toy oven, draws giant serpents eating boats, and writes names in a black notebook, daring to choose who would stop hurting the people he loves. His house has roaches and no real doors; his family has rules etched into fear, and his neighborhood makes softness feel like a liability. Still, Joey finds joy wherever he can: anime marathons, JRPG stories, stolen fangs on Halloween, and the tender chaos of raising snakes, a dog, and an alligator he names Rex.
The book follows Joey as he navigates hospital nights and school days that go wrong, older boys who test him, and adults whose pain spills over into him. He is raised by a grandfather who calls him names, a mother who flickers in and out of the apartment, and girls and women — Tia, Erica, and Dotty — whose presence complicates and saves him in turns. Through sudden humor and heartbreaking detail, Joseph Earl Thomas shows how a kid learns to manage a furnace of anger without letting it burn his soul. He makes an honest space for shame and desire, for music blasting late, for video games that feel like more than games, and for small kindnesses that land like life rafts.