
This warm summary explores why so many common struggles—burnout, resentment, avoidance, conflict, and even the quiet pressure of always being available—often trace back to one hidden root: unclear or unprotected boundaries. Nedra Glover Tawwab reframes boundaries as mutual expectations that support mental and emotional health, not as harsh rules or punishments.
Across eight chapters, the narration gently walks through signs that boundaries are missing, why they can feel hard to set, and how to communicate them clearly and consistently. It also looks at different boundary styles, common reactions from others, and the importance of self-boundaries—how a person treats their own time, money, thoughts, and needs.