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Powerful Phrases for Dealing with Difficult People

Over 325 Ready-to-use Words and Phrases for Working with Challenging Personalities

Renée Evenson

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Question 1 of 7
According to the book, what is the primary reason you should avoid starting conflict conversations with words like 'always,' 'never,' or 'you'?
  • A. They make the other person feel defensive and sound like an accusation.
  • B. They give away your negotiating power too early in the conversation.
  • C. They force you to provide specific evidence that you might not currently have.
  • D. They shift the focus away from the problem and onto the solution.
Question 2 of 7
What is the true purpose of using a 'phrase of apology' (such as 'I'm sorry if I misunderstood your intent') during a conflict?
  • A. To admit that you are entirely at fault for the conflict.
  • B. To flatter the other person so they will agree to your terms.
  • C. To create an opening in the situation and share responsibility.
  • D. To quickly end the conversation before it escalates into a formal HR complaint.
Question 3 of 7
Which of the following is recommended regarding nonverbal communication and body language during a conflict?
  • A. Maintain intense, unbroken eye contact to show authority.
  • B. Fold your arms over your chest to protect your personal space.
  • C. Make eye contact, but occasionally look away so you don't come off as too intense.
  • D. Speak as quickly as possible to get your points across before being interrupted.
Question 4 of 7
In the five-step process for resolving conflict, what is the crucial first step you should take when a problem arises, such as a coworker taking credit for your idea in a meeting?
  • A. Immediately confront the person publicly to establish professional boundaries.
  • B. Think about the situation and wait for a more appropriate time and place to speak up.
  • C. Go directly to your boss to report the unethical behavior before the coworker can.
  • D. Offer a phrase of compromise to smooth over the immediate tension in the room.
Question 5 of 7
Under what circumstances does the author suggest skipping step two ('getting a better understanding') of the conflict resolution process?
  • A. When dealing with minor miscommunications over email.
  • B. When you are the one who caused the problem and need to apologize.
  • C. When dealing with unacceptable behaviors like bullying, where boundaries simply need to be defended.
  • D. When you are speaking to a manager or someone higher up in the company hierarchy.
Question 6 of 7
How should you adjust the five-step conflict resolution process when dealing with a difficult boss?
  • A. Skip the 'I' statements and use 'You' statements to project leadership.
  • B. Frame your proposed solutions more as suggestions rather than hard lines.
  • C. Avoid scheduling a meeting and instead catch them off-guard to get an honest reaction.
  • D. Skip the phrase of understanding, as managers do not require emotional validation.
Question 7 of 7
If a coworker confronts you angrily and unskillfully about a mistake you made, what is the best immediate course of action according to the text?
  • A. Point out their aggressive tone and refuse to speak until they calm down.
  • B. Fight the urge to lash back, take a breath, and use a phrase of apology to open the door to understanding.
  • C. Immediately deny the accusation to protect your professional reputation.
  • D. Walk away permanently and report their outburst to human resources.

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Powerful Phrases for Dealing with Difficult People Summary & Overview

Powerful Phrases for Dealing with Difficult People (2013) provides practical tactics for navigating tough conversations at work. Along with over 325 phrases, it includes dozens of sample conversations that show the phrases in action.

Who Should Listen to Powerful Phrases for Dealing with Difficult People?

  • Anyone dealing with difficult coworkers or bosses
  • Employees looking for practical guidance on how to talk to colleagues
  • People interested in conflict management

About the Author: Renée Evenson

Renée Evenson has a degree in organizational psychology and a passion for communication and conflict management. She has worked in customer service management for over three decades and has written numerous books on communication in customer service, including Customer Service Training 101 and Customer Service Management Training 101. 

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