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Lying

Why we need to stop lying and start telling the truth

Sam Harris

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Types of Lies+
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Quiz — Test Your Understanding

Question 1 of 5
According to the text, what is the primary danger of telling seemingly harmless 'white' lies?
  • A. They inevitably lead to severe legal consequences and jail time.
  • B. They contribute to the normalization of untruths and can lead to much larger deceptions.
  • C. They cause immediate and irreparable damage to casual acquaintances.
  • D. They require more mental energy to maintain than major political lies.
Question 2 of 5
How does witnessing a trusted friend or family member tell a lie to someone else affect you, according to the book?
  • A. It makes you realize they are protecting someone's feelings, increasing your respect for them.
  • B. It teaches you how to better navigate complex social situations with them.
  • C. It makes you feel uneasy because you realize they are capable of lying to you as well.
  • D. It strengthens your bond because you now share a secret with them.
Question 3 of 5
Why does the author describe lying as an 'energy thief' that causes mental stress?
  • A. Because liars must constantly monitor and keep track of the different fabrications they have told to different people.
  • B. Because the guilt of lying causes severe sleep deprivation and physical exhaustion.
  • C. Because people who lie are frequently confronted and forced to defend themselves in arguments.
  • D. Because it takes significant emotional energy to comfort the people whose feelings you have hurt.
Question 4 of 5
What does the text suggest is the ethical responsibility of someone who knows their friend is being cheated on?
  • A. Keep the information to yourself to protect the friend from short-term emotional pain.
  • B. Tell them the truth, because withholding it tacitly allows them to remain in a toxic relationship.
  • C. Lie about the details to soften the blow before eventually revealing the truth.
  • D. Distance yourself from the friend so you do not have to carry the burden of the secret.
Question 5 of 5
What does the example of Andrew Wakefield's false research on vaccinations demonstrate about human belief?
  • A. People are generally quick to forgive scientists who publicly admit their mistakes.
  • B. Medical lies are less harmful than political lies because they are easily disproved by peers.
  • C. Once a lie is exposed, society naturally self-corrects and restores trust in institutions.
  • D. People tend to remember and hold fast to lies once they have accepted them as true, even after they are disproved.

Lying — Full Chapter Overview

Lying Summary & Overview

Lying (2011) explains why the act of telling lies is so dangerous. And that means all lies, from the tiny lies that people tell on a daily basis to the massive lies sometimes told on the world stage. All in all, it’s always better to tell the truth.

Who Should Listen to Lying?

  • Anyone who’s ever told a lie
  • Psychology students  
  • People interested in politics

About the Author: Sam Harris

Sam Harris’s books have been translated into more than 20 languages. His other titles include The End of Faith and Free Will. Five of his books have made the New York Times’s best-seller list. He is also the host of the podcast Waking Up, which discusses spirituality.

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