He’s Just Not That Into You

This audio summary explores a simple but often painful idea: when someone genuinely wants to be with you, their actions tend to make that clear. Through stories, plain-language observations, and candid reminders, the message encourages listeners to stop over-explaining confusing behavior and to protect their time, energy, and self-respect.

Across eight chapters, the focus moves from early dating confusion—like unanswered calls and undefined relationships—to more serious situations like cheating, breakups, and long-term commitment. The heart of the narration isn’t about blaming anyone; it’s about helping people step out of uncertainty and into relationships that feel steady, mutual, and emotionally safe.

• Anyone who finds themselves interpreting mixed signals, waiting for texts, or making frequent excuses for a partner’s lack of effort
• Listeners recovering from a breakup who want a grounded way to rebuild self-trust and set clearer standards for future relationships
• People who want a calm, direct reminder that mutual interest looks like consistency, honesty, and follow-through—not confusion

Greg Behrendt is a comedian and writer, and Liz Tuccillo is a writer and editor who worked on Sex and the City. Together, they became known for translating relationship confusion into straightforward guidance, emphasizing that actions often communicate more reliably than hopeful interpretations.