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Acting with Power

Why We Are More Powerful Than We Believe

Deborah Gruenfeld

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Acting with Power
Redefining Power+
Playing Power Up+
Playing Power Down+
Embodying the Role+
Mastering Team Dynamics+
Handling Power Abuses+

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Question 1 of 8
According to the book, what is the true nature of power?
  • A. It is exclusively held by those with high status, wealth, or authoritative titles.
  • B. It is the role we play in other people’s lives and our ability to control their circumstances.
  • C. It is an innate personality trait that only a few ruthlessly determined people possess.
  • D. It is the ability to independently achieve one's own goals without relying on others.
Question 2 of 8
When is the assertive behavior known as 'playing power up' considered most appropriate and effective?
  • A. When a leader needs to assert dominance to intimidate rebellious employees.
  • B. When you want to ensure your personal interests are prioritized over the group's.
  • C. When it is used to protect the interests of others, such as keeping a project on track or letting quiet people speak.
  • D. When you are trying to appear relatable and earn the trust of a new team member.
Question 3 of 8
Why might a powerful leader deliberately choose to 'play power down'?
  • A. To avoid taking responsibility for difficult decisions and pass the buck to subordinates.
  • B. To connect with people, encourage trust, and show a willingness to work together.
  • C. To secretly manipulate employees into working longer hours without extra pay.
  • D. To prepare for an aggressive negotiation by lulling the opponent into a false sense of security.
Question 4 of 8
How does the author suggest using 'The Magic If' (from the Stanislavski Method) in professional settings?
  • A. By imagining how you would behave if you were exactly who and what your new role demanded.
  • B. By memorizing your exact words before a presentation so you don't have to improvise.
  • C. By pretending to have more technical skills than you actually do until you get promoted.
  • D. By emotionally detaching from your coworkers to maintain a highly professional facade.
Question 5 of 8
What is the key mindset required to successfully play a supporting role in an organization?
  • A. Constantly looking for ways to use the role as a stepping stone for personal advancement.
  • B. Competing with the leading figures to prove you are equally capable of being the boss.
  • C. Prioritizing the work and the team's overarching mission over your own personal status.
  • D. Delegating your responsibilities to others so you can focus on high-visibility projects.
Question 6 of 8
Which of the following is a recommended strategy for managing the anxiety of stepping into a powerful role?
  • A. Focusing intensely on your own internal feelings to better understand your fears.
  • B. Avoiding rehearsals so your performance feels more authentic and less robotic.
  • C. Concentrating on the people around you and how they might be feeling instead of focusing on yourself.
  • D. Reminding yourself of the negative consequences of failing to motivate yourself.
Question 7 of 8
How does the book recommend you respond to a bully to deter their behavior?
  • A. Match their aggression by yelling back to show you are not easily intimidated.
  • B. Act unaffected by what they do so you become a boring target.
  • C. Immediately report them to human resources without confronting them first.
  • D. Apologize for whatever triggered their behavior to quickly de-escalate the situation.
Question 8 of 8
When a leader is looking to elevate someone who will use power well, which three qualities should they look for?
  • A. Charisma, a competitive nature, and a desire for rapid career advancement.
  • B. High technical expertise, introversion, and a strict adherence to company rules.
  • C. A focus on achievement, warmth towards others, and a mature approach to power.
  • D. Unquestioning loyalty, a willingness to work overtime, and a dominant personality.

Acting with Power — Full Chapter Overview

Acting with Power Summary & Overview

Acting with Power (2020) takes the mystery out of power by breaking down what it actually is and how to use it effectively wherever we find ourselves. Borrowing techniques from the field of acting, these blinks also detail how to cope when we feel nervous or unprepared for powerful roles, or when we desire more power than we’ve been given.

Who Should Listen to Acting with Power?

  • Anyone who wants to wield power more effectively
  • People who are curious about power dynamics
  • Students of social psychology

About the Author: Deborah Gruenfeld

Deborah Gruenfeld is a professor at the Stanford Graduate School of Business, where she co-directs the Executive Program for Women Leaders. For over 25 years, her research, writing, and teaching have been focused on the psychology of power, and she’s been featured in academic journals and publications including the Wall Street Journal and the Washington Post. She’s also the co-author of Stress in the American Workplace.

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