What will I learn about: how using the Bible as your ultimate relationship blueprint can transform your perspective, minimize pain, and help you build a lasting connection?

Discover how using the Bible as your ultimate relationship blueprint can transform your perspective, minimize pain, and help you build a lasting connection.

What will I learn about: Learn the six vital phases of the biblical relationship model—from singleness to having children—to ensure you are moving intentionally toward your goals?

Learn the six vital phases of the biblical relationship model—from singleness to having children—to ensure you are moving intentionally toward your goals.

What will I learn about: why singleness is a crucial period for self-discovery rather than a punishment, and discover how to maximize it by investing, imagining, and inspiring?

Understand why singleness is a crucial period for self-discovery rather than a punishment, and discover how to maximize it by investing, imagining, and inspiring.

What will I learn about: how to practice intentional dating by establishing deep friendships, having focused conversations, and setting boundaries that align with God's vision?

Find out how to practice intentional dating by establishing deep friendships, having focused conversations, and setting boundaries that align with God's vision.

What will I learn about: Recognize why dating is meant to be a temporary transitional phase rather than a permanent comfort zone, saving you from the heartbreak of modern casual relationships?

Recognize why dating is meant to be a temporary transitional phase rather than a permanent comfort zone, saving you from the heartbreak of modern casual relationships.

Relationship Goals

How to Win at Dating, Marriage, and Sex

Michael Todd

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💡Have you ever wondered why so many people settle for 'good enough' in their relationships, and what if the secret to finding 'the one' starts long before you meet them?
💡Did you know that your past heartaches could actually be the blueprint for your future healing and the key to building a relationship that lasts a lifetime?
💡What if you could transform your marriage or dating life by applying the same level of intentional goal-setting that you use for your career or personal growth?

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Key Takeaways from Relationship Goals

✓Discover how using the Bible as your ultimate relationship blueprint can transform your perspective, minimize pain, and help you build a lasting connection.
✓Learn the six vital phases of the biblical relationship model—from singleness to having children—to ensure you are moving intentionally toward your goals.
✓Understand why singleness is a crucial period for self-discovery rather than a punishment, and discover how to maximize it by investing, imagining, and inspiring.
✓Find out how to practice intentional dating by establishing deep friendships, having focused conversations, and setting boundaries that align with God's vision.
✓Recognize why dating is meant to be a temporary transitional phase rather than a permanent comfort zone, saving you from the heartbreak of modern casual relationships.

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Quiz — Test Your Understanding

Question 1 of 9

According to the book, why are the relationship ideals often portrayed on social media problematic?

A. They encourage couples to spend too much money on superficial things.
B. They are only snapshots that emphasize the good and exclude the reality of the bad.
C. They focus too heavily on spiritual connection rather than physical attraction.
D. They make single people feel inadequate and unwilling to date.

Question 2 of 9

What does the author identify as a crucial relationship goal according to the Bible, beyond showing kindness and forgiveness?

A. Achieving financial independence together.
B. Ensuring the man takes the primary leadership role in the household.
C. Helping your partner achieve their God-given life purpose.
D. Having a large family to grow the church congregation.

Question 3 of 9

What does the story of the author's friend Doug illustrate about relationships?

A. Financial success is necessary to maintain a happy marriage.
B. A strong relationship with God is the essential foundation for healthy relationships with others.
C. Business partnerships should be kept separate from personal friendships.
D. Marriages can survive any hardship as long as both partners communicate.

Question 4 of 9

How does the author redefine the period of 'singleness' in a person's life?

A. As a time of loneliness that must be endured until the right person comes along.
B. As a phase dedicated to recreational dating to figure out what you like.
C. As a time for 'I' — investing in yourself, imagining your future, and inspiring others.
D. As a trial period to test out living with potential partners before marriage.

Question 5 of 9

What is the main problem with 'recreational dating' according to the author?

A. It lacks a clear destination and distracts you from finding the right person.
B. It usually leads to marriage too quickly before partners know each other.
C. It is too expensive and drains financial resources meant for marriage.
D. It prevents individuals from developing a strong circle of friends.

Question 6 of 9

During the 90-day intentional dating process described in the book, what is one of the recommended steps for couples?

A. Moving in together to test daily compatibility.
B. Discussing relationship fears and agreeing on physical boundaries.
C. Introducing each other to extended family members immediately.
D. Pooling finances to practice managing a household budget.

Question 7 of 9

Why did the 'perfect' couple, T and Valeria, ultimately break up?

A. They realized they had incompatible career goals.
B. They refused to participate in the 90-day intentional dating process.
C. Their relationship became a priority over their individual relationships with God.
D. One partner was acting as a 'liability' by draining the other's finances.

Question 8 of 9

What counterintuitive advice does the author give to married couples who feel the passion has drained from their relationship?

A. They should spend a few months living in separate houses.
B. They should focus all their energy on their children's success.
C. They should go back to 'being single' by working on self-improvement.
D. They should lower their relationship goals to avoid disappointment.

Question 9 of 9

What is the author's actionable advice for moments when you are tempted to say something critical to your spouse?

A. Write your frustrations in a journal instead of speaking them.
B. Stop and think of something to praise them for instead.
C. Walk away and refuse to speak until you are both calm.
D. Express your criticism using 'I feel' statements rather than accusations.