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How to Be Your Own Therapist

Boost Your Mood and Reduce Your Anxiety in 10 Minutes a Day

Owen O'Kane

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How to Be Your Own Therapist
The Core Philosophy+
Step 1: READY (Morning, 4 mins)+
Step 2: STEADY (Afternoon, 3 mins)+
Step 3: REFLECT & RESET (Bedtime, 3 mins)+

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Question 1 of 6
According to the book, what is a primary reason that childhood coping strategies cause suffering in adulthood?
  • A. They are usually based on traumatic events that adults cannot remember.
  • B. They become so ingrained that they are almost invisible, even when they no longer serve us.
  • C. They prevent us from forming meaningful relationships with professional therapists.
  • D. They require constant conscious effort to maintain, leading to mental exhaustion.
Question 2 of 6
In the first minute of the morning 'Ready' routine, how should you approach your emotions, body, and mind?
  • A. By actively trying to change negative feelings into positive ones.
  • B. By analyzing the root causes of any physical discomfort or anxiety.
  • C. By simply acknowledging what is happening without judgment.
  • D. By writing down every thought and sensation in a journal.
Question 3 of 6
When setting an intention during the 'Ready' routine, what type of goals does the author recommend focusing on?
  • A. Material or financial goals.
  • B. Professional and career-oriented goals.
  • C. Personal and emotional development.
  • D. Physical fitness and health milestones.
Question 4 of 6
Why does the afternoon 'Steady' routine include doing an act of kindness for someone else?
  • A. It helps to re-orient us away from our own self-absorption, lifting our mood.
  • B. It acts as a form of social networking to build a support system.
  • C. It distracts the mind entirely so that we forget our daily challenges.
  • D. It is a required step to prove to ourselves that we have changed our behavior.
Question 5 of 6
During the bedtime 'Reflect and Reset' routine, what four headings should be used for quick journaling?
  • A. Trigger, Emotion, Action, Resolution
  • B. Event, Interpretation, Consequences, Closure
  • C. Problem, Reaction, Alternative, Acceptance
  • D. Situation, Thoughts, Feelings, Behavior
Question 6 of 6
What physical ritual is recommended during the final minute of the 'Reflect and Reset' routine?
  • A. Stretching to release tension stored in the muscles.
  • B. Lighting a candle to represent the end of the day.
  • C. Washing your hands in a bowl of water to symbolize cleansing negativity.
  • D. Drinking a glass of warm water to prepare the body for sleep.

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How to Be Your Own Therapist Summary & Overview

How to Be Your Own Therapist presents highly-effective techniques from evidence-based therapeutic approaches, including cognitive behavioral therapy and mindfulness. Funny and humane, it outlines a simple self-therapy program to free you from unhelpful habits and tendencies, as well as daily check-in sessions that can be completed in as little as ten minutes.  

Who Should Listen to How to Be Your Own Therapist?

  • People wishing to learn essential therapeutic techniques to improve their lives
  • Anyone curious about initiating a daily self-therapy practice
  • Those eager to overcome negative thought patterns and adopt healthier perspectives

About the Author: Owen O'Kane

Owen O'Kane is a psychotherapist with over 25 years of experience in mental health. He is a columnist, speaker and the bestselling author of Ten Times Happier and Ten to Zen. A former NHS Mental Health Clinical Lead, he now runs a private practice in London. 

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