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Cues

Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication

Vanessa Van Edwards

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Cues
The Power of Cues+
The Charisma Formula+
Body Language (Physical Cues)+
Defensive Cues (Throwing Up Walls)+
Vocal Cues+
Verbal Cues (Semantics)+
Visual Cues+

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Question 1 of 8
According to the book, what are the two crucial components that make up charismatic communication?
  • A. Empathy and Assertiveness
  • B. Warmth and Competence
  • C. Confidence and Vision
  • D. Body language and Vocal tone
Question 2 of 8
What is the likely career result for someone who exhibits high competence but lacks warmth in the workplace?
  • A. They will be well-liked but frequently passed over for promotions.
  • B. They will achieve high results but receive few invitations to networking or social events.
  • C. They will be viewed as submissive and lose power in negotiations.
  • D. They will constantly be asked to affirm their statements by colleagues.
Question 3 of 8
What does 'leaning in' during a conversation primarily convey?
  • A. A need to establish dominance and power over the other person.
  • B. An increase in the warmth factor, showing interest, engagement, and trust.
  • C. A sign of underlying anxiety or lack of confidence in one's own words.
  • D. A subconscious attempt to test the other person's physical boundaries.
Question 4 of 8
Why does the author suggest avoiding a 'head tilt' if you need to maintain power in a conversation?
  • A. It signals that you are disagreeing with the speaker's points.
  • B. It exposes the vulnerable neck and can be perceived as submissive.
  • C. It indicates that you are hiding something or feeling anxious.
  • D. It unconsciously communicates that you are bored with the interaction.
Question 5 of 8
Fidgeting with a necklace or covering your mouth is an example of which type of nonverbal cue?
  • A. Blocking, which signals fear, anxiety, or hiding something.
  • B. Questioning, which signals a lack of understanding.
  • C. Branding, which signals intentional visual communication.
  • D. Competence, which signals deep thought and problem-solving.
Question 6 of 8
What negative signal does using a 'question tone' (raising the pitch at the end of a statement) send to listeners?
  • A. It shows that you are being too aggressive and demanding.
  • B. It indicates that you are feeling bored or disconnected.
  • C. It signals a lack of confidence and asks the listener to affirm your words.
  • D. It demonstrates that you are highly competent but lack warmth.
Question 7 of 8
When considering semantics and word choice, what does the author identify as the antithesis of charisma?
  • A. Being overly emotional
  • B. Using too much competent language
  • C. Being boring
  • D. Using informal slang
Question 8 of 8
What did David Nihill's visual cue of rolled-up sleeves inadvertently communicate to his coworkers?
  • A. That he was disorganized and unprepared for his first day.
  • B. That he was a problem-solver ready to dig in and get to work.
  • C. That he lacked the competence required for a formal office environment.
  • D. That he was highly approachable and warm.

Cues — Full Chapter Overview

Cues Summary & Overview

Cues (2022) is about the signals we send unconsciously and how they affect the way others perceive us. The book is geared toward improving your professional life by managing the cues you send and responding appropriately to the ones you receive. 

Who Should Listen to Cues?

  • Professionals looking to achieve their goals
  • Those interested in the science of communication
  • People who want to improve their professional relationships

About the Author: Vanessa Van Edwards

Vanessa Van Edwards is the national best-selling author of Captivate and Cues. She is an international speaker and founder of Science of People, where she teaches science-based strategies for reaching professional goals. 

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