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Closer to Love

How to Attract the Right Relationships and Deepen Your Connections

Vex King

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Closer to Love
Defining Love+
Connecting With Yourself+
Clearing Past Baggage+
10 Relationship Rules+
Navigating the Ugly Side+
Knowing When to Leave+

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Question 1 of 8
How does Vex King define 'love as an action' in the context of a relationship?
  • A. It is the spontaneous feeling of butterflies that occurs when you meet the right person.
  • B. It is the ongoing effort and work required to maintain a relationship after initial feelings fade.
  • C. It is the high energetic frequency that naturally attracts a compatible partner to you.
  • D. It is the act of completely changing your personality to better meet your partner's needs.
Question 2 of 8
According to the book, why is it essential to establish clear personal boundaries before entering a relationship?
  • A. They prevent your partner from discovering your past emotional baggage.
  • B. They ensure that you will always have the upper hand in relationship conflicts.
  • C. They protect your sense of identity and prevent you from losing yourself in the relationship.
  • D. They help you test your partner's commitment and loyalty early on.
Question 3 of 8
What does the concept of drawing a 'cut-off line' refer to when preparing for a new relationship?
  • A. Setting a strict time limit on how long you will date someone before committing to marriage.
  • B. Identifying the point where your past emotional baggage ends and your present begins.
  • C. Cutting off communication with all friends or family who do not support your new relationship.
  • D. Establishing a strict financial boundary to protect your assets before moving in together.
Question 4 of 8
According to Vex King's ten relationship rules, what is the most emotionally mature way to approach a conflict with your partner?
  • A. Focus on proving your point so the issue is resolved permanently and logically.
  • B. Avoid addressing the conflict until both parties have forgotten about the negative emotions.
  • C. Aim for fairness and practice compassion rather than trying to win the argument.
  • D. Compare your partner's current behavior to past versions of themselves to show them how they've changed.
Question 5 of 8
Which of the following best describes the rule to 'keep the intimacy alive'?
  • A. Intimacy is strictly about maintaining physical affection and romance on a daily basis.
  • B. Intimacy involves nurturing emotional and intellectual connections, not just physical ones.
  • C. Intimacy requires molding your partner into your ideal version of them to ensure compatibility.
  • D. Intimacy is maintained by ensuring you spend every possible moment together and share all hobbies.
Question 6 of 8
When a partner's actions set off your emotional triggers, what is the recommended first step to break the pattern of unhealthy behavior?
  • A. Immediately express your anger so your partner knows they have crossed a strict boundary.
  • B. Look inward to identify the root cause of the trigger and understand why you are reacting.
  • C. Ignore the trigger entirely and wait for the feeling to pass to avoid unnecessary conflict.
  • D. Blame your partner for not being mindful enough of your past traumas and attachment styles.
Question 7 of 8
Psychologist Joanne Davilla recommends developing three specific skills to forge healthy connections. Which of the following is NOT one of these skills?
  • A. Insight
  • B. Mutuality
  • C. Independence
  • D. Emotion regulation
Question 8 of 8
According to marriage specialist Dr. John Gottman, which of the four conflict types involves placing the blame on your partner instead of taking responsibility?
  • A. Criticism
  • B. Stonewalling
  • C. Defensiveness
  • D. Contempt

Closer to Love — Full Chapter Overview

Closer to Love Summary & Overview

Closer to Love (2023) examines the secrets of forming a deep connection with others. Highlighting the author’s experiences alongside various experts’ theories and concepts, it offers practical wisdom on fostering self-love and romantic love.   

Who Should Listen to Closer to Love?

  • Couples struggling with their relationship
  • Single individuals looking to fix their love life
  • Anyone who wants to build healthier connections

About the Author: Vex King

Vex King is a spiritual advisor, mind coach, and online content creator. He is also a Sunday Times Bestselling author for his self-development books Good Vibes, Good Life and Healing Is the New High. 

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