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The 11 Laws of Likability

Relationship Networking … Because People Do Business with People They Like

Michelle Tillis Lederman

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The 11 Laws of Likability
Networking Mindset+
The Power of Authenticity+
Effective Communication+
Curiosity & Questions+
The Three Levels of Listening+
Building Trust Through Similarity+
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Question 1 of 7
What should be your primary focus when networking?
  • A. Achieving a specific business objective or transaction
  • B. Connecting with people honestly and authentically
  • C. Winning people over to your point of view
  • D. Collecting as many contacts as possible
Question 2 of 7
According to the text, how can you tell if you are being authentic in a social situation?
  • A. You are actively steering the conversation toward your goals.
  • B. You are highly aware of every word you say to avoid mistakes.
  • C. You easily adapt your personality to mirror the person you are speaking to.
  • D. You feel completely natural and may not even notice your behavior.
Question 3 of 7
What does the author suggest you do if you feel obligated to attend a social event you don't really want to go to?
  • A. Go anyway and practice hiding your true feelings to be polite.
  • B. Skip it entirely unless you absolutely must go, or find a way to make it enjoyable.
  • C. Attend the event but leave as soon as you have spoken to the host.
  • D. Use the event to practice your probing questions on strangers.
Question 4 of 7
Based on Albert Mehrabian's research mentioned in the book, which component of communication has the greatest impact on your likability?
  • A. Verbal (the specific words you use)
  • B. Vocal (the tone of your voice)
  • C. Visual (your body language)
  • D. Vocabulary (the complexity of your language)
Question 5 of 7
Which type of question is best used as a follow-up to sustain an engaged conversation?
  • A. Closed-ended questions
  • B. Open-ended questions
  • C. Probing questions
  • D. Inward questions
Question 6 of 7
If a friend tells you they love Vietnamese food, and you respond by noticing their excited expression and asking if they are considering a trip to Vietnam, which level of listening are you demonstrating?
  • A. Inward listening
  • B. Outward listening
  • C. Intuitive listening
  • D. Probing listening
Question 7 of 7
Why do people often rely on a friend's recommendation when hiring a new employee or choosing a restaurant?
  • A. People trust sources they know and transfer that trust to the recommended party.
  • B. It requires less mental energy to let others make decisions for them.
  • C. Friends usually have more objective and unbiased opinions.
  • D. It guarantees that the interaction will remain completely authentic.

The 11 Laws of Likability — Full Chapter Overview

The 11 Laws of Likability Summary & Overview

The 11 Laws of Likability (2011) is a guide to networking built on one simple fact: people do business with people they like. These blinks will explain how to discover your most likable characteristics, start conversations and keep them going, and make a lasting positive impression on people.

Who Should Listen to The 11 Laws of Likability?

  • Anyone who wants to build a lasting professional relationship
  • Anyone starting a new job
  • Recent graduates looking for a job

About the Author: Michelle Tillis Lederman

Michelle Tillis Lederman is a motivational speaker and professional coach. She is the founder and CEO of Executive Essentials, a firm that runs communication and leadership programs for businesses and professionals alike. She is the author of numerous bestsellers including Nail the Interview, Land the Job.

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