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Never Split the Difference

Negotiating As If Your Life Depended On It

Chris Voss and Tahl Raz

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Question 1 of 8
According to the book, what is a fundamental flaw in traditional negotiation theory?
  • A. It overemphasizes the importance of finding a compromise.
  • B. It assumes that people act rationally, when in fact they are often irrational and emotional.
  • C. It is only applicable to high-stakes situations like hostage crises.
  • D. It neglects the use of deadlines as a pressure tactic.
Question 2 of 8
What is the primary goal of using the 'mirroring' technique in a negotiation?
  • A. To show off your superior memory and attention to detail.
  • B. To annoy your counterpart into making a mistake.
  • C. To build trust and comfort, encouraging the other person to share more information.
  • D. To stall for time so you can think of a better argument.
Question 3 of 8
The book describes 'tactical empathy'. How does this differ from regular empathy?
  • A. It is a less emotional and more detached form of understanding.
  • B. It is only used to understand positive emotions, not negative ones.
  • C. It involves understanding feelings to influence the other person's actions strategically.
  • D. It focuses on sympathizing with the other person's position, even if you disagree.
Question 4 of 8
When using the 'labeling' technique, why is it recommended to start phrases with 'It sounds like...' or 'It seems like...'?
  • A. To make your statement sound more like a question.
  • B. To take yourself out of the equation and show selfless, empathetic interest.
  • C. To sound less confident and more open to being corrected.
  • D. To subtly suggest that the other person's feelings are not based in reality.
Question 5 of 8
Why does the author argue that hearing the word 'No' can be a positive step in a negotiation?
  • A. It immediately ends a failing negotiation, saving everyone time.
  • B. It proves your counterpart is unreasonable and you should walk away.
  • C. It often marks the real start of the negotiation and allows you to clarify what the other person truly wants.
  • D. It gives you a clear reason to escalate the issue to a higher authority.
Question 6 of 8
What is the author's main argument against 'splitting the difference'?
  • A. It is an outdated technique that modern negotiators no longer use.
  • B. It can result in a dissatisfying outcome for both parties and makes you vulnerable to being pushed into a bad deal.
  • C. It is only fair if both parties have equal power, which is rarely the case.
  • D. It is a sign of weakness and shows you are not confident in your position.
Question 7 of 8
In negotiation, what is a 'black swan'?
  • A. A rare but predictable event that you can plan for in advance.
  • B. A secret weakness your counterpart tries to hide at all costs.
  • C. A piece of unforeseen information that can completely change the dynamic of the negotiation.
  • D. An unethical tactic used to gain an unfair advantage.
Question 8 of 8
How does 'negative leverage' work, according to the book?
  • A. By pointing out flaws in your counterpart's logic.
  • B. By using their own moral code or rules against them.
  • C. By threatening them with physical harm.
  • D. By using their fear of loss, making them aware you can take something of value away.

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Never Split the Difference Summary & Overview

Never Split the Difference (2016) is your guide to getting what you want. Drawing on FBI strategies, it offers hands-on advice for how to negotiate your way to success – whether it’s in the office, the home, or a hostage standoff. 

Who Should Listen to Never Split the Difference?

  • Leaders and managers
  • Workers in the market for a job or a raise
  • Anyone with a spouse, partner, or friend

About the Author: Chris Voss and Tahl Raz

Chris Voss is a former lead kidnapping negotiator with the FBI. He’s the founder of the negotiation consultancy The Black Swan Group and has taught negotiation courses everywhere from Harvard to MIT’s Sloan School of Management. 

Tahl Raz is a journalist and coauthor of the New York Times best seller Never Eat Alone.

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