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Single On Purpose

Redefine Everything. Find Yourself First

John Kim

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Reconnecting With You+
Rethinking Attraction+
The 6-Step Journey to Singledom+
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Question 1 of 7
How does the author suggest we reframe the feeling of loneliness?
  • A. As a personal failure that needs to be quickly fixed by finding a new partner.
  • B. As a warning light on a dashboard reminding you to check in with and take care of yourself.
  • C. As an inevitable consequence of modern dating culture that must simply be endured.
  • D. As a sign that you have not yet found your true purpose in your career.
Question 2 of 7
According to the book, why do people often find themselves drawn to dysfunctional relationship dynamics?
  • A. They prioritize physical attraction over emotional compatibility during their twenties.
  • B. They fail to establish clear boundaries during the early dating phase.
  • C. They are unknowingly seeking out familiar dynamics that mirror the chaos or unpredictability they grew up with.
  • D. They spend too much time focusing on their own aspirations rather than learning how to compromise.
Question 3 of 7
Step three of the six-step journey is to 'Take ownership' of your part in a breakup. What is the one exception the author gives for this rule?
  • A. When your partner was the one who officially initiated the breakup.
  • B. When you have already apologized for your mistakes.
  • C. When the relationship was purely casual and short-term.
  • D. When you are recovering from an abusive relationship.
Question 4 of 7
What characterizes the 'non-negotiables' mentioned in Step 5 of the single journey?
  • A. They are strict physical and financial requirements you must seek in a future romantic partner.
  • B. They are standards for your self-worth that apply to every facet of your life, including work and health.
  • C. They are a list of past grievances that you must force your ex to acknowledge before you can move on.
  • D. They are the specific career milestones you must reach before you are allowed to start dating again.
Question 5 of 7
The author compares the sex drive to a four-piston engine. Which of the following is NOT one of the four pistons described in the book?
  • A. Movement
  • B. Self-liking
  • C. Partner validation
  • D. Mental game
Question 6 of 7
How does the author redefine the concept of 'closure' after a relationship ends?
  • A. It is the process of getting your ex-partner to finally understand and validate your perspective.
  • B. It is a slamming door that permanently seals away your memories of the past relationship.
  • C. It is the mutual agreement between two ex-partners to remain friends and support each other.
  • D. It is about finding your own peace of mind, even if you never fully comprehend the other person's experience.
Question 7 of 7
According to the final section, authentic happiness is made up of a 'trifecta'. What are these three elements?
  • A. Meaning, joy, and engagement
  • B. Wealth, health, and relationships
  • C. Acceptance, forgiveness, and moving on
  • D. Passion, intimacy, and commitment

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Single On Purpose Summary & Overview

Single on Purpose (2020) is a candid exploration of love, closure, and the human quest for genuine happiness. Get ready to renew your relationship with yourself, redefine your perspectives on love, and ignite the engines of self-confidence and joy within you.

Who Should Listen to Single On Purpose?

  • Anyone going through a breakup
  • Personal growth explorers 
  • Life coaches or self-coaches seeking a better way to frame relationships

About the Author: John Kim

John Kim, known as “The Angry Therapist,” is a pioneering figure in the world of self-help and therapy. As a licensed therapist, life coach, and writer, he offers refreshing and relatable advice. Kim also cofounded the online therapy platform JRNI, opening the door for more accessible therapy and coaching.

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