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Everyday Vitality

How to Thrive, Survive, and Feel Alive

Samantha Boardman

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Question 1 of 7
According to professor David Almeida, how do 'Velcro' people typically respond to difficult situations?
  • A. They make flexible plans and focus on daily positive actions.
  • B. They catastrophize, isolate themselves, and indulge in 'cotton candy' activities.
  • C. They immediately seek out challenging new hobbies to distract themselves.
  • D. They rely heavily on their friends and family to solve their problems.
Question 2 of 7
What lesson about stress and vitality is illustrated by the General Mills cake mix example from the 1950s?
  • A. People prefer products that eliminate all effort and stress from their daily chores.
  • B. Providing too many ingredients overwhelms people and reduces their sense of competence.
  • C. People find tasks more rewarding when they require a certain level of effort and challenge.
  • D. The most effective way to build vitality is to follow strict, step-by-step instructions.
Question 3 of 7
Why does the author suggest that you sometimes shouldn't 'be yourself' when facing a tough situation like public speaking?
  • A. Because authenticity is generally overrated in professional environments.
  • B. Because intentionally channeling a confident persona can help you overcome your natural anxieties.
  • C. Because hiding your true emotions prevents others from taking advantage of your weaknesses.
  • D. Because audiences respond better to theatrical performances than to genuine emotion.
Question 4 of 7
What is 'Active Constructive Responding' (ACR) in the context of romantic partnerships?
  • A. Offering immediate solutions to fix your partner's problems after a stressful day.
  • B. Responding to your partner's news with genuine enthusiasm, eye contact, and follow-up questions.
  • C. Giving your partner space and silence so they can decompress from work.
  • D. Buying lavish gifts, like diamond necklaces, to show your appreciation.
Question 5 of 7
How does the author suggest we should handle negative emotions like sadness or disappointment?
  • A. We should rationalize our way out of them by finding a quick silver lining.
  • B. We should immediately engage in passive activities like watching TV to numb the feelings.
  • C. We should allow ourselves to feel them, put them into words, and learn to coexist with ambiguity.
  • D. We should force ourselves to smile and repeat positive affirmations until the feeling passes.
Question 6 of 7
In the electric shock study mentioned in the book, which group of participants reported feeling the least amount of pain?
  • A. Those who were told they were shocked by mistake.
  • B. Those who were told their partners shocked them on purpose for no reason.
  • C. Those who were told the shock was a step toward winning lottery tickets.
  • D. Those who held a stranger's hand while being shocked.
Question 7 of 7
According to the book's final actionable advice, what is the best way to help someone who is stuck in a difficult situation?
  • A. Tell them exactly what you would do if you were in their shoes.
  • B. Ask them what advice they would give to someone else in the same position.
  • C. Distract them from their problem by taking them out for a fun activity.
  • D. Point out the mistakes they made that led to the current situation.

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Everyday Vitality Summary & Overview

Everyday Vitality (2021) explores how we can cultivate resilience while juggling the small, nonstop stresses of everyday life. Those who thrive do so because they build vitality, a force of power and flexibility that allows them to handle difficulties. The people who cope best are the ones who find ways to turn their stress into strength through intentionality, purpose, and connection.

Who Should Listen to Everyday Vitality?

  • Anyone looking to alleviate stress in their daily lives
  • People interested in improving their quality of life
  • Those who are interested in achieving peace amid busyness

About the Author: Samantha Boardman

Samantha Boardman is a Harvard- and Cornell-trained psychiatrist who practiced in New York City for years before obtaining a Master’s degree in Applied Positive Psychology from the University of Pennsylvania. Now she practices positive psychiatry, has been published in professional journals as well as the Wall Street Journal and Psychology Today, and has appeared on the Today Show.

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