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Status Games

Why We Play and How to Stop

Loretta Breuning

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Question 1 of 6
According to the text, what is the fundamental origin of our constant drive for social status?
  • A. It is a modern cultural obsession amplified by social media.
  • B. It is a psychological flaw resulting from childhood insecurities.
  • C. It is a biological instinct inherited from our mammalian ancestors.
  • D. It is an artificial construct designed to increase economic productivity.
Question 2 of 6
Why did mammalian brains evolve to care deeply about social bonding and status compared to reptiles?
  • A. Mammals are warm-blooded and require more energy to survive in harsh climates.
  • B. Mammals have fewer offspring and must intentionally protect and nurture them within social groups.
  • C. Mammals possess a unique genetic mutation that forces them to compete for limited food sources.
  • D. Mammals evolved to live on land where predators were more prevalent than in aquatic environments.
Question 3 of 6
How do serotonin and cortisol drive our behavior in social status games?
  • A. Serotonin creates long-lasting satisfaction, while cortisol completely shuts down our ability to socialize.
  • B. Serotonin rewards social success but fades quickly, while cortisol acts as an alarm system for social threats.
  • C. Serotonin makes us hyper-competitive, while cortisol encourages us to bond with and nurture others.
  • D. Serotonin triggers our fight-or-flight response, while cortisol produces feelings of calm and contentment.
Question 4 of 6
What role do mirror neurons play in our understanding of status?
  • A. They cause us to physically mimic the posture of higher-status individuals.
  • B. They prevent us from feeling empathy when competing for resources.
  • C. They allow us to learn from and feel an equivalent response to the praise or criticism others receive.
  • D. They reflect our own insecurities back to us, increasing our cortisol levels.
Question 5 of 6
What is recommended as a healthy alternative to constantly competing for status?
  • A. Ignoring your drive for status entirely so it naturally disappears.
  • B. Shifting your focus from competing with others to creating something valuable.
  • C. Isolating yourself from social groups to avoid triggering cortisol spikes.
  • D. Exclusively helping others so you never have to focus on your own needs.
Question 6 of 6
What is a potential hidden trap when we feel the impulse to help others who are struggling?
  • A. We might accidentally trigger their cortisol alarm by offering too much support.
  • B. We often project our own past pain onto them and use helping as a subtle way to boost our own status.
  • C. We risk depleting our own serotonin levels by giving too much attention to their problems.
  • D. We might accidentally rewire their brain to become completely dependent on us.

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Status Games Summary & Overview

Status Games (2021) explores how the pursuit of social status drives much of human behavior, tracing these instincts back to our brain’s evolutionary roots. It explains how our brains reward status-seeking with feel-good chemicals like serotonin, shaping the way we interact, compete, and compare ourselves to others. 

Who Should Listen to Status Games ?

  • Anyone interested in better understanding social comparison
  • Students studying human behavior or psychology
  • Coaches and therapists supporting personal development

About the Author: Loretta Breuning

Loretta Graziano Breuning, PhD, is a Professor Emerita of Management at California State University, East Bay, and the founder of the Inner Mammal Institute. Her books on human brain chemistry, including Habits of a Happy Brain, The Science of Positivity, and Tame Your Anxiety, have been translated into 15 languages. 

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