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Parenting

Getting It Right

Andy & Sandra Stanley

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Question 1 of 8
What do Andy and Sandra Stanley consider to be the ultimate parenting win?
  • A. Raising kids who are financially successful and highly educated.
  • B. Raising kids who want to be with you, even when they don’t have to be.
  • C. Raising kids who never make mistakes or break the rules.
  • D. Raising kids who adopt all of their parents' hobbies and interests.
Question 2 of 8
What fundamental dynamic should parents remember when practicing relationship-focused parenting?
  • A. The relationship you have with your children is not the same as the relationship they have with you.
  • B. Parents and children should act as complete equals to foster mutual respect.
  • C. Authority should be entirely abandoned in favor of friendship from day one.
  • D. Children should be allowed to set the boundaries for the household.
Question 3 of 8
During the first season of parenting (years 0 to 5), what should be the primary focus?
  • A. Coaching them through complex emotional problems.
  • B. Letting them learn naturally from their own failures.
  • C. Building a friendship based on mutual hobbies.
  • D. Teaching obedience and discipline.
Question 4 of 8
When deciding when to discipline a young child, the authors recommend looking for the 'three D’s'. What are they?
  • A. Defiance, Destruction, and Disruption.
  • B. Disobedience, Dishonesty, and Disrespect.
  • C. Delay, Distraction, and Disengagement.
  • D. Dishonesty, Disloyalty, and Disobedience.
Question 5 of 8
What is a key strategy during the 'training' season (years 5 to 12)?
  • A. Practicing social skills and habits through repetition, like the 'quick draw' handshake.
  • B. Allowing children to make their own rules to foster independence.
  • C. Stepping back completely so they can learn from their own unguided mistakes.
  • D. Focusing exclusively on punishing negative behavior without explanation.
Question 6 of 8
How should parents handle their teenagers' mistakes during the 'coaching' years (years 12 to 18)?
  • A. Bail them out immediately to show unconditional love.
  • B. Correct every mistake strictly to prevent future issues.
  • C. Don't bail them out; let them fail so they can learn valuable lessons.
  • D. Ignore the mistakes completely so they don't feel judged.
Question 7 of 8
According to the book, what is the 'currency of love' for kids?
  • A. Verbal affirmation and praise.
  • B. Time spent with them, reflected in your schedule.
  • C. The financial sacrifices made for their future.
  • D. The freedom to make their own choices.
Question 8 of 8
What is the authors' advice regarding a parent's 'intent' when they accidentally hurt their child with words?
  • A. Explaining your positive intent will instantly fix the hurt feelings.
  • B. Intent is irrelevant; you should allow your kids time and space to recover.
  • C. You should demand forgiveness since the harm was unintentional.
  • D. As long as your intent was good, the words carry no negative weight.

Parenting — Full Chapter Overview

Parenting Summary & Overview

Parenting (2023) presents essential parenting principles in a format that is easy to follow and implement. By drawing on practical knowledge and experience, the authors illustrate the goals and steps required to raise a happy and healthy kid – whether you’re dealing with the sleepless frustration of a newborn or the emotional rollercoaster of a moody teenager.

Who Should Listen to Parenting?

  • Overwhelmed new parents who want a bit of direction in their chaotic lives
  • Frustrated moms and dads looking for a fresh perspective on classic problems
  • Expecting couples who want to have a solid foundation from the very start

About the Author: Andy & Sandra Stanley

Andy Stanley is an author, pastor, and founder of North Point Ministries, a collection of 180 churches around the world. He lives in Atlanta with his wife, Sally, and has three grown children.

Sally Stanley has a master of arts from Dallas Theological Seminary and is involved in the foster care initiative at North Point Ministries. Along with her husband Andy, she’s been a foster parent since 2010.

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